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Ok so i don't know whats wrong with me! its been like a year since i saw my x bf and i am beginning to miss him. Everytime i think i miss him.. ok but i don't understand why because he was horrible to me! he did not care for me. He never even gave me a card for my birthday but i miss him. What shall i do, I don't think i want to talk to him again because i want him 2 miss me. But im not sure if he does!! help.
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It sounds like he was a pretty terrible boyfriend.
Chances are you don't miss him so much as you miss having someone. So go out looking, flirt, enjoy yourself and look for someone to be with who will also treat you well.
The desire to have him miss you is kinda selfish (I'm not one to talk though, everytime my ex talks to me I rub how wonderful, sexy and understanding I am. If he doesn't regret what he did to me, it's certainly not for lack of trying) but please, don't do what I do, try to be the better person and just let the stupid boy go. He will probably never realize just how good he had it with you.
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you probably don't miss him as much as you miss having a boyfriend. so try and move on, find someone else who can treat you better. and who can care for you. :)
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What it could be is that you are really into him,even probably in love,and you don't know it.So nothing is wrong with you but you need to get over him only time can help you forget him but if you keep seeing him it will be extremely hard .It's like a shadow on your body you just can't get off if you know what I mean.You must find someone who will treat you the way you want to be treated he is not worth it.Talk with other people,make new friends,chat,or other interests you have if you see a guy you like see into the personality because if you just go for the look you may wind up going to illusions with someone who is like your ex and also be very controlling so keep your eyes wide open.Ask a friend of yours to ask your ex if he misses you so you know but tell them not to say it was you because he may lie saying he doesn't miss you.
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Sounds like you're going through a guy-drought or a patch of low self esteem (both?).
The guy sounds like a creep so maybe you're missing the whole idea of having a boyfriend rather than him personally, and want to reassure yourself that someone wants/wanted you.
Go out and socialise and get on with the task of meeting nice guys who deserve you.
Happy hunting
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