Question Posted Wednesday September 7 2005, 4:59 pm
Alright. I like this guy. Today he told me that he wanted a gf. we are pretty good friends. I wanna tell him how i feel about him. Any suggestions on how i should approach him?
~*Michele~*
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? lucretia answered Saturday September 10 2005, 10:07 am: Oh, tricky one. Is he hinting that he wants you two to be more than friends, or not? I think you should approach him, but with caution, as it's just possible that he's confiding in you just as a friend and hasn't thought of you in a romantic light. Which isn' to say that he never will, or that a nudge in the right direction isn't a good idea.
I'm probabably not the best person to be advising you, weary as I am of always initiating realtionships and having them not work out. But go for it, ask him to the cinema and , when you feel the mood is right, lay a hand gently on his arm and stroke it, or slip your hand into his. Something like that. Word of warning- nothing more unpleasant or embarrasing than leaning forward to kiss s/o who then doesn't respond, so be sure of your ground before you attempt to lock lips. Best of luck, let me know how it went Lucretia xx. [ lucretia's advice column | Ask lucretia A Question ]
rikatree2375 answered Friday September 9 2005, 7:42 pm: Usually the best way is to just open up and be honest. Depends if you know for sure if the guy is mature enough but it sounds like it since he wants a gf. If i were you, i'd try dropping major hints and if he doesnt get it, just tell him. Later he'll probably thank you for letting him know lol. You could also just let him make the first move. Takes patience, i know, but that can work really well too. Just take it step by step and it'll work out all in time. Hope i helped!!!
mooch789 answered Friday September 9 2005, 6:51 pm: Tell him straight out how you feel about him. If he says yes, congratulations! If not, stay friends. Sometimes things happen in the future. Good luck! Hope I helped! [ mooch789's advice column | Ask mooch789 A Question ]
3HOLLYWOODxGLAM3 answered Wednesday September 7 2005, 5:50 pm: the best thing to do is just tell him straight up. guys usually like agressive girls.. and if you stall or tell a friend to do it. that just looks immature. so you might as well just tell him straight foward. good luck!! [ 3HOLLYWOODxGLAM3's advice column | Ask 3HOLLYWOODxGLAM3 A Question ]
SpartanDancer985 answered Wednesday September 7 2005, 5:24 pm: Just like go up to him and say,,"Remember when you said you wanted a girlfriend? Just like tell how you feel like if yall say hey and everything then just come out and tell him. Don't be shy. Alot of guys don't like when girls are shy and i think thats kinda weird though lol.Well i hope i helped!!
soccer_crazii answered Wednesday September 7 2005, 5:23 pm: Michele--
if he told you he wanted a gf theres a good chance that he likes you. he could be telling you 1 of 2 things.
1. he likes you and wants to go out with you
2. hes just telling you how he feelings cuz your so close, but he may not want to go out with you.
but i think its the first one. next time he tells you that again say i want a bf, and you can just start it from there. if he doesnt say anything soon, just ask him out. [ soccer_crazii's advice column | Ask soccer_crazii A Question ]
Onitenmasapiens answered Wednesday September 7 2005, 5:21 pm: welll i'm a forward person but i'd just kinda ask him how he felt about me and go from there... i mean chances are if he's telling you that he may feel the same way you do but is nervous to say anything so just try
saying something to him [ Onitenmasapiens's advice column | Ask Onitenmasapiens A Question ]
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