Ok I asked this girl to Homecoming and then if she said YES i was going to ask her out! But then she said NO to going with homecoming! Here are her exact words: "well i dont really like you that way cuz i think your such an awesome friend and i wouldnt want anything to happen and it hurt our friendship" So what should I do now? When girls say this what do they actually mean?
Where did you ask her? online, the phone, face to face? Any of those places could of effected her answer in different ways. And one more thing before I give you my opinion, are you like pretty close to this girl??
Okay well if you are then she probably seriously meant what she said. Who would want to ruin a friendship over a relationship that might not last? Because it is definatly hard to go back to friends after breaking up.
But if you aren't that close, I'm sorry, but I think either she wanted to go with someone else or she didn't like you like that. sorry. I know it sucks right?
So there is my opinion and it just differs on all those things. Please don't be mad about what I said. But she could just not want to ruin a friendship with you. Girls think differently than guys. So just think about that and maybe you can ask a different girl or just go alone and meet your friends there. It still is ALOT of fun that way too. Hope I helped* PinKkiSs43 [ PiNkKiss43's advice column | Ask PiNkKiss43 A Question ]
oneandonly345 answered Tuesday September 6 2005, 7:28 pm: she could mean two things:
she doesnt like you
she really doesnt want to ruin the frien ship.
i think that she really doesnt want to ruin your friend ship, she said it in a nice way.
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