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ex boyfriend
Ok..I dated this guy back in june and we had sex but I cheated on him and we broke up..but in like august he called me and he was like you should come up my house and chill, so I did. We ended up having sex that day and I left and he didn't call me for like a month..and like a week ago he started calling me to come up his house and "chill" but I don't know because my friends think he's just using me for a "booty call" he called saturday, sunday and today but today he just wanted me to come down his work but I turned him down all times... I don't know what to do..is it a booty call? or does he wanna start things back up? IM so confused..plz help..i'll rate fives!!!!!
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To me it sounds like a booty call if he realy liked you he would of kept in touch i would think instead of waiting a month to call you
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Okay, so he doesn't call you often at all. When he does, he's telling you to go "up his house and chill". So you do. And you get sexual. Then you leave. It's a "Booty call". I'm sorrie. =/ You can find better. You know this.
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Certianly sounds like a booty call doesn't it?
The simple way to find out is to ask him straight up "Do you wanna go out agian, or do you just want sex?"
I should mention that the better time to ask that question would be before you have sex with him agian. Hang out with him someplace neutral or public, where sex is not an option and see if he seems into you as a person, or just you as a girl he wants back in bed.
Even if he does want to start things back up, your question hasn't told us how *you* feel about him. Don't go out with a guy just because he expresses an interest. Go for the guys that you want, not the ones that just happen to want you.
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Trust me from experience he is using you. You are better than that, What if you end up pregnant like I did, I had 2 teenage pregnancies while I was in highschool. Had two kids missed out on prom,and a lot of other things. Do you think the guy stuck around. No and we were even engaged before I became pregnant. not to mention
the STD's floating around. You might want to get a checkup, The number one STD today is gonnorea from oral sex, I'm not saying you have it, just giving you and other teens out there a heads up.
I am recommending a website for you www.acquirethefire.com
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I hate to say it but I have to agree with your friends. Getting sex and then not calling for a month...not a good sign. Don't go out with him again unless you talk to him and get a commitment. Even then I'd make him wait until you are positive of his feelings for you. :)
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