I live in Maine and i need advice to help my friend. See..She is in love with this guy and every day she talks to me about how much she wants him and needs him and loves him. I really want to give my friend good advice to help her overcome this guy that she loves. He doesnt like her back cause he has a girlfriend. She tells me that everyday she hates life and that there no point in living cause she doesnt have anything she wants. She also has a boyfriend but she loves the other guy way more. I dont know what to tell my friend every time she talks to me about how much she is in love with this other guy. My friend seems to be depressed and it makes me sad. I want to help her and tell her the right stuff so she will be happy again and will be positive and enjoy life. What can i tell her and what adivice should i give her? So that she will forget about this guy that doesnt like her back.
Signed- I love my best friend and want to help her.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? oneandonly345 answered Monday September 5 2005, 3:38 pm: well .. you really can not change your friends mind.. she loves him .. and thats that. but you need to tell her that you dont think its fair what she is doing to her boyfriend. its like almost cheating.
but just let her talk to you about it .. let her know you are there. and then this will soon pass. or maybe it wont. love is a very tricky thing .. and you cant get over it in 2 days
make sure she knows that you are there to help her get through this, and you are there for her to talk to . maybe you should tell her to try to be friends with this lover of hers, that some times helps take the love away .
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