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20m and 17f

Question Posted Monday September 5 2005, 2:58 pm

Ok i have liked this girl for a quite some time now. I have asked her out quite a few times. Two times i asked her she said not yet cause she was afraid that our friendship would fall apart. But recently she sent me an email and said she was thinking about considering my offer. So i waited to see if she would tell me a for sure answer. Never got one so i emailed her back and asked her basically is it a yes or no. She said she dont think so now but when she is ready to get in a serious relationship I would be the first to know. And every since the first time i asked her out or sort of hinted to her she has been in my dreams. There has been those where is just like a normal friendship thing on some but then again i have had quite a few bout me her and her little boy she has, being out on our own with a decent house, cars and what not. But the really weird thing was in a couple of my dreams there was another kid in the picture and evidentally i was the dad of it. And then i have even had a dream with me and her getting married. So please tell me with all these dreams i am having bout her what does that mean. I have told her exactly how i feel bout her i mean every little thing and showed and told her how much i care and really love her and her little boy. I will go was going over to their house on the weekend and helping her do whatever wheather it was work on their house, take the trash out for them or even feeding her baby while she slept. I dont know whether this mattered or not but i told her sex wasnt important to me. It was us getting together that was important to me. And as far as how i do feel toward her i have never felt like this at all towards anybody. So my question is, Is even though she aint going to go out with me now, Could the way i feel bout her maybe being the one be true?

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Additional info, added Tuesday September 6 2005, 2:59 pm:
Ok well as of yesterday her and that boy broke up now i just need to know how to get her attention and make her realize that i really want to go out with her, I wont do her wrong and will try to make her happy. Any suggestions? .

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Razhie answered Tuesday September 6 2005, 10:21 am:
Sure it could be true. Just doesn't seem very likely at this point.

She must feel wonderful about this situation. She has a great guy just waiting around for her whenever she feels like going out with him. In the mean time, she gets your attention and flattery and plently of extra help.

If this is the way you want this relationship to progress, fine. But you have to see how it looks to me like you are being used. You have given her the world and gotten nothing in return.

Wait and see, but please don't invest all your future and fantasies into a relationship that hasn't even happened yet.

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XoUkrainianBabeXo answered Monday September 5 2005, 6:35 pm:
You can never say never so it can very well be true. It's not a positive yes but yet it's not a no. Just stay friends with her for now and see where it takes you. If you care for her as much as you say you do then in the end she might care for you as much as you do for her. She might just be scared to get into a serious relationship in fear of getting hurt again by someone she cares for. I'm guessing that’s how she got her child. So wait it out and see what happens. She might be the one and you will never know unless you wait to find out.
Good luck, if you need anything else just ask :)

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