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i think i need help.
(14/f)
last fridayy, my cousin's friend, that she tried to hook me up with, forced himself on me and tried to rappee me i guess. i don'tt know what to do. i feel so alone. i don't know if i shoulld tell her or not, i'm so paranoid, my friendss have no idea about anything, and its gettingg to the pointt where I can't even sleep at nighht anymore.
i need help, who do i tell?? should i tell anyone? or just let it goo? please help.
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you should never just let it go! this is something very improtant and you should tell an adult that you trust! and tell your friend, because you dont want the same thing that happend to you to happen to her do you? and always remember that it isnt your fault! good luck with every thing. hope i helped.
xoxo brit
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You're right - you do need help. You were a victim in a scary situation, and unless you start talking about it you could end up feeling even more alone and upset.
A good person to tell? Your parents, a guidance counsellor, a therapist, or any other adult you trust. While friends are great, sometimes it takes someone a little older to be able to really help you work through a situation like this.
There are a lot of options, including informing the police that this happened.
But whatever you decide to do, it's important that you decide to do SOMETHING. Keeping your mouth shut and hoping your mind will somehow forget about this is not the way to move forward in a healthy way.
Best of luck.
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no no no do not let it go! tell your friends and your cousin about this..they will SUPPPORT YOU..you were a victim this was NOT your fault. do not feel alone because many people are in your position right now..
what you do is stay away from this creep..report him to police..get him in trouble! he doesnt desserve to not get in trouble for that..get him in trouble before he does it again to some other girl!
tell your parents ..they are your best friends..they wont be ashamed of you or upset because he was the idiot who tried to force you..
good luck with everything..get this asshole in trouble pleeease!
-melissa
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YOU NEED TO TELL SOMEONE!!! thats what you need to du...make sure it is someone that you trust wvery well..... if i were you i would tell my best friend cuzz i no she will understand... try talkin to your friend... then after spilling it out.. try telling your cousin! if she does not belive you! then you have to make her belive!! if your cousin cant trust you.. well... jsut ell untill some one belives you and will du something about it. also... if you said NO to the guy.... and he did stuff anyways then thats usually a rape or malesting
hope i helped
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