omg im feeling so depressed all of the sudden because 1) me and my best friend have been bff's for 12 years! and now she starts acting all bitchy and in a year shes going to move to california and i live in ohio..and i dont want her to move because shes the only person i can talk to who always knows what to do in my situations. 2) this guy ive liked all summer (he likes me too) all of the sudden on IM he acts like he doesnt even want to talk to me..and i dont know why?!?!? and 3) this other i guy i like has always been really flirty and nice to me and now all of the sudden he wont talk to me anymore..did i do something wrong?!?!? i dont know what to do..i feel so..uhh ya know? please help me!! i would really appreciate it!
1) Hmmm the only thing I could sense about her being bitchy is possibly she's trying to push you away so whenever she DOES have to move, she won't feel as bad saying goodbye maybe? I would just talk to her about that. Just be like," Look, we've been best friends for 12 years. Please, you can talk to me.. why are you being so mean to me lately?" .. she just might be upset or soemthing that she has to move, and she just might be taking it out on you.
2) Does he know you like him? Maybe if you didn't send him any signals or anything he might have given up on you, thinking you don't like him. I would talk to him about it. Next time, just be like," Hey, did I do something or say something? It seems like you don't wanna talk to me anymore =(..." ( or something like that ). I don't know ; that's kinda weird...
3)Same thing as 2, maybe he thought you didn't like him, so he stopped flirting iwth you... I don't know, alls I can really suggest is once again, talk to him about it. Just be like," Hey did I do something wrong or say something wrong to offend you or something? cause lately you don't really wanna talk to me anymore.." ( or something like that )
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