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Omg this is sooooooo embarassing
O. My. God. I don't know what the hell to do! I'm 13f and I just discovered I like my teacher (he's a guy). This is sooooooooooo embarassing! And he senses it, too, which is even worse. Because every time I see him I blush and I can't make direct eye contact. I should not be liking him. What can I do to NOT like him? How can I control blushing?
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ewww think about how wrinkly and old he is. thats just wrong. dont be like that. try and go for guys your age cause thats pretty illegal. plus, you dont have a chance with him.
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Its natural to have a crush on a teacher. I don't know many girls who haven't had one at one time or another. Its normal. Nothing will come of it and it will fade away soon. I don't think much can be done about the blushing. :)
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I'm sure lots of girls (and guys) have been there. Liking an old person old enough to be your parent or grandparent? EWWW. But nevertheless you still have a crush on them anyway! Weird how that works.
Just don't worry about it. Even if this year turns out to be the most embarrassing ever...guess what? Next year will be a new year and you will have new teachers.
I'm sure your teacher understands, and is maybe even flattered. I'm pretty sure he won't try to embarrass you about it.
Just remind yourself he's old. He's a teacher. And you both have waaay different lives. I think the best way to deal with this is to look him in the eye. Don't avoid him. Don't have any thoughts about crushing on him. Just think of it as "Oh. There's my teacher." Then you can concentrate on something else or concentrate on your teacher's bad traits. I hope this works for you!
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wow thats happened to me with like the weirdest people... my friends MOM and shes UGLY and im STRAIGHT! anyway, imagine him 20 years later...see how he looks with a huge beer belly, think about how mean he is. thats all i can think of, it shouldgo away with time. <3
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like o-meh-gawd okeh, that is a mega crisis! you need like real help girlfriend! Um liiiiiikkee my advice or whatever, is to go up to him and ask him about any dark dirty secrets that would make you think of him as like.....dumb and gross. And like you could always ask him if he has a girlfriend, and if he does, like you can just like remember hes not in your reach. O meh gawd I hope I helped! && good luck!
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omg girl u sound just like me okay i had a huge crush on my teacher okay i was like obsessed its just a fase it will pass by trust me ik, i hope i helped, and tell you self when you look at him that hes ugly and stuff like that it should help
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WOW. And I thought that this only happened on lifetime soaps.. but here we go...
You can't control who you like at what time or where. So your just going to have to persevere. Dont let your teacher distract you. When he's teaching concentrate on your notes and whats on the board and try to ignore him (obviously not what hes saying, but his presence). When he walks by, look into your notebook. This a good way to perservere through this.
There are no real ways to STOP liking a person, you can't control how you feel. However, there are ways of yeilding your feelings. So in class if you do look at him try your best to find the least attractive feature about him. His clothes, a mole, hair cut.. anything even imagine up something like nose hair or a lot of ear wax and if youre not in love with him, this will probably help you to tone down how you feel.
The only other way I can think of to help this problem is to try placing your feelings with someone else closer to your age and focus on being with them. It is perferable that they be in your class so that you can focus on them and not the teacher. Eventually (hopefully) the liking for your teacher will fade and your feelings for this other boy will increase.
Just remember to focus on your studies and getting a good grade- that is most important.
I hope this helps, please feel free to ask me a question anytime!
-Althea, the sexy beast.
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