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so theres this kid i used to be like best friends with. we actually started talking online, but don't worry, he goes to the same school as me. so yeah we met in like january online and after that we started talking more and we were really good friends, we would talk about any and laugh together, but it was only online. it was like an online relationship, because he's from south africa where itsz all like british accents, and his is a really heavy accent, so i was just afraid that if i talked to him in person i would be like "whut whut whut whut" and barely be able to understand him. so we would talk online all night and say "yeah ok i`m gunna talk to yu tomorra in person" but we actually never did. then i dunno, things started to change. i started to get annoyed by everything, seeing as i got my period for the first time while we were close friends. so i was like PMSing alot, and me and him started to argue alot. we would have these fights like "i hate you i hate you too" and the next day we`d be like "omg i'm sorry youre still my bestfriend." then i dunno.. i dumped his bestfriend and thats when more stuff changed. i guess he tried to defend his friend, so when they went over eachothers houses they would have burn sessions and he started sayin shxt behind my back. when i found out about it, i asked him about it and he lied! he lied to me once i knew the truth! he's a bad lier anyways, so i started asking him what he was saying about me and being a total bxtch because i was so pxssed. he finally confessed and we just kept fighting and saying what we really thought of eachother, and it was actually nice to get that off our chests. but it also hurt many feelings, his and mine. yeah i feel guilty about that but i dunno about him. after that we haven't talked much, i just found out he doesn't wanna be friends with me anymore because we argue too much. thats true, but we always end up working it out. now, he's moving back to south africa spet. 24, and i can't stand the thought of him not being here, for all that we don't really talk anymore. but i don't want him to move back without everything being unsaid. whenever i try to say anything to him he just says "k" or "sure" or "whatever" so its obvious he doesn't care and doesn't feel like listening. i don't know what i should do, i don't want him to move back and remember me as the rude girl he always fought with. i don't know if i should appologize.. if i have anything to appologize for, that is. in my opinion i don't, because hes the one who talked and started this argument in the first place. i don't know what i should do, just let wait for him to talk to me, which i'm sure won't happen. or try and talk to him again.. or what?
thx
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heyy babez. woah that must have taken forever to write XP
anyways .. what i would do is write it in a letter or emial and spill my guts out. tell him everything. tell him that you dont want him to go back and have him thinking all these things. i dont know whut else you wanna say but just tell him. if he doenst respond, he doesnt respont. theres nuthin you can do about it.
i hope this helped. Keep in touch and tell me how everything goes!!! im always here
♥Alese
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