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Crush in denial


Question Posted Thursday August 18 2005, 7:57 am

Alright, so there's this girl, and I love her. I mean, I really LOVE her. During the school year, I didn't really care, I liked her as a friend, but everyone was convinced that she liked me. Even my best friend once said to her, "You know, you really look like (my name)'s girlfriend!" But then during the summer I realized that I really did love her, so I told her that, she said she like me as a friend. But I couldn't stop thinking about her. Then, a month later, I emailed her again saying that I couldn't get over her, and she said that what she had previously said, she honestly didn't know, her current relationship was pretty much over. So I knew there was hope, and I was sooo happy about that, but I still felt like I needed more. So I asked her to the carnival there as friends, and that was pretty cool. We had a pooled fund of tickets, and we ran out of all of them except for one... whe shared cotton candy... etc. So I'm nearly positive she likes me, but she just won't admit it to herself. How can I convince her? Thanks!

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sunnyville answered Thursday August 18 2005, 2:17 pm:
Look into her eyes a lot and if she askes why just tell her that she seems nervous around you try to convince her by keep on telling her that and maybe she may even confess.There is other ways like if you go on a friendship date when she askes for another drink say you got only for one drink so she'll probably even drink at the same cup!Or tell her if she wants to share a drink I bet she will!Make her laugh girls like that I'm a girl myself and I like having a laugh once in a while or at least if the guy makes me smile or happy.

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CrystalRenee06 answered Thursday August 18 2005, 1:56 pm:
Well, you can't convince any one to like you at all. They have to go with their feelings. If you think that this girl likes you, then you go ahead and do what you gotta do... Maybe she's playing hard to get, or maybe she really doesn't have feelings for you at all.. Ya know, you got to let it run it's course.. and see how it all works out. You shouldn't push your self on her either since she claims that you's two are just friends ya know. But good luck any ways!

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emmii answered Thursday August 18 2005, 10:57 am:
well first off, dont just keep telling her that you like her... she might be playing hard to get or she might like someone else... keep trying to hang out with her * but REMEMBER . just as friends, you cant push yourself on her!

hope i helped!

emmii`*

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xRoOxiSxBlOnDex answered Thursday August 18 2005, 10:10 am:
You can't really convince someone to like you. She has to admit it to herself before she's going to be ready to tell you. Give her some time, then talk to her in PERSON. It's easier to lie and deny over the internet. Good luck!
♥ Melissa

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X_Amanda_X answered Thursday August 18 2005, 9:04 am:
You just have to ask her to be your girlfriend! If you don't ask her, then another guy may come around and get her. And if she says that she still likes you as a friend, just give her time..maybe a few weeks..and ask her out again.

Good Luck! =)

X_Amanda_X

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