well right now i am in a fight with a person that i considered to be one of my best friends. and the reason we are fighting is because we both kinda broke a promise to each other. and now we pretty much never talk && when we do we fight and talk about never being friends again. and i mean im just not quite sure if i really wanna lose this friend. but also our trust factor is kinda broken now, ya kno? what do you think i should do?
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[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? xoLiGHTiNY0UREYES answered Monday August 15 2005, 12:53 am: Heyy- well fights are part of the best friend thing. It just brings the people closer together in the end most of the time which is a great thing. Promises..ahh yes. They always seem to break somehow don't they ? People make promises all the time, even best friends do to each other and sometimes things happen and they aren't kept. But if you both broke the same promise there's no reason you both can't fix it. Just have a nice conversation with each other ; don't bring anything up about your friendship unless you've been talking for awhile about different stuff. It's always so painful to lose someone you thought was your friend, and I believe in second chances. Think about what the promise was. Was it about a guy/girl and not fighting over him/her? Those never turn out right in the end. If you make up your bond will be stronger. Trust is the greatest bond people can have with each other. If this promise was serious, think it over because once people begin to lie, it becomes more and more easy for them. Talk it over with the person, calmly and coolly. Good luck =)
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