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My name's Kellie and I'm a sophomore at Marist High School. I have the greatest friends ever, they mean the world to me. Just as my boyfriend, Josh, does. I love him so much and I want to be with him forever :o). I love to shop. I love softball and baseball, particularly the White Sox! YESS.. I'm a loser, but hey, I don't deny it. I love my white sunglasses. I love to read, write, dance, love, laugh, and of course above all, have fun. I like a huge variety of music, it's all so good.

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hey kellie.

well right now i am in a fight with a person that i considered to be one of my best friends. and the reason we are fighting is because we both kinda broke a promise to each other. and now we pretty much never talk && when we do we fight and talk about never being friends again. and i mean im just not quite sure if i really wanna lose this friend. but also our trust factor is kinda broken now, ya kno? what do you think i should do?


thanks.

Heyy- well fights are part of the best friend thing. It just brings the people closer together in the end most of the time which is a great thing. Promises..ahh yes. They always seem to break somehow don't they ? People make promises all the time, even best friends do to each other and sometimes things happen and they aren't kept. But if you both broke the same promise there's no reason you both can't fix it. Just have a nice conversation with each other ; don't bring anything up about your friendship unless you've been talking for awhile about different stuff. It's always so painful to lose someone you thought was your friend, and I believe in second chances. Think about what the promise was. Was it about a guy/girl and not fighting over him/her? Those never turn out right in the end. If you make up your bond will be stronger. Trust is the greatest bond people can have with each other. If this promise was serious, think it over because once people begin to lie, it becomes more and more easy for them. Talk it over with the person, calmly and coolly. Good luck =)
♥ Kel

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Dearest Kellie James...
My question is...WHY DO I NEVER GET TO SEE YOU!!
It makes me very sad...especially when ur one of the coolest and bestest friends i have. PLUS...summer is almost over...sO my plan is: party hard.

You can guess who this is from...
Clue: Mrs. Aaron Rowand

Heyy Mrs. Aaron Rowand. Well you never get to see me simply because there's vacations and crew and other things coming up. But that "xcore" game of Hide and Go Seek was intense and our movie night is asap. And the Sox game, which will be once school starts of course. I love you Kellllllz !
♥ Kel

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hi kellie,
my boyfriend wants to have sex with me really bad...and im a junior in high school...and i really want to too...but its just that i dont want all the risks of getting pregnant...but we've been going out for 2 years..and all we've done is makeout..should i have sex with him or not? help!!

Heyy, well I can't be the one to make your decisions for you. And correct, there are the major risks of getting pregnant, and there's diseases too. If all you guys have done is makeout, you can do other stuff too which I'm sure you've heard of but not exactly go all the way. Remember, condoms are 97-99% effective and there's always the pill, but the only surefire way of protecting yourself is waiting until marriage with the one you know you want to spend the rest of your life with. Just give yourself time to think it over and if you don't want all the worries and risks, don't do it! Good luck ;)
♥Kel

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Hey, well ive been going out with my girlfriend for a few months and I love her 2 death but i am rly clingy wit her and i get jealous alot. is this a bad thing?? i dont kno kno if me getting really jealous and being clingy is a bad thing and idk if i should try and change that. can u help??

Heyy-- well personally, I don't think being jealous is a bad thing. I think it means you care enough about her and you don't want to lose her to anyone else. As for the clinginess? I'm sure if she loves you as much as you love her she doesn't mind it. But everyone needs their freedom, right? When you start to get jealous, just remind yourself that you trust her. Because if she loves you too, what can happen with anyone else? Trust will just make the relationship stronger..it's a great bond to have. If your girlfriend is anyone like me, she needs to have a day to herself every great while. So if you guys have been spending a lot of time together, just ask if she wants a day for herself or with her friends, but I'm sure she loves being with you just as well :).
♥ Kel

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Why are you such a great person and great friend???

)_LOVE_(
=Kelly=

Ohh Kelz. I'm not that great of a person, but as for the friend part it's because I love you and I got the best friends anyone could wish for. Foshizzle. The end. I LOVE YOU KEL

♥ Kel

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