MummuM answered Sunday August 14 2005, 4:01 pm: 1. Smile: It is contagious. It will make you so much more approachable. A smile lights up your face and draws people to you. You will be a people magnet. 2. Compliment: Compliment your flirting partner. The best compliments have the element of surprise. The "flirtee" will know that you really noticed them.Remember, your compliments must be honest, sincere and genuine. When you receive a compliment the best response is merely, Thank You! 3. Eye contact: Make eye contact, but please look your partner in the eye gently (no more than 2-4 seconds) and then glance away. Don't stare - it's a turn off. 4. Listen: You have two ears and one mouth because you should listen twice as much as you speak. Listening is a true art. Your flirting partner will be drawn to you. Everyone loves to be heard. 5. Make the first move: Move closer to the person you want to meet. Say hello! 6. Be the host: Change your behavior from the role of guest to host. You are not the passive person in waiting, but rather the welcome committee. 7. Use props: Never leave home without a prop. Props are natural conversation starters. They encourage conversation and others will be compelled to start talking to you. Great props include: dogs, kids, a sweatshirt with your favorite passion, ties, hats, or an interesting book or newspaper. 8. Have fun: Be playful, light-hearted and spontaneous. Show your vulnerability. 9. Start a conversation: The best opening line is saying hello. Talk about the surroundings, ask a question, ask for help, state an opinion. 10. Flirting is an attitude: A good flirt is self-confident and not afraid to take risks. Be enthusiastic and positive, it works! ([Link](Mouse over link to see full location))
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karenR answered Sunday August 14 2005, 3:55 pm: The best thing is to be yourself. Some people can flirt and it is very natural to them and others can't. Here is a site that I hope is of some help. :)
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