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pregnancy
hi there, me and my husband are sexually okay. the only problem is he is very concious abt me for not getting pregnant. he might have fear for resposabilties. as far i know him if i get pregnant he would be fine and would except it but the only problem is how can i make him ejaculate in me, cuz he is concious abt wearing condoms too. should i make him drunk so he should not remember he had ejaculated or not?
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If your husband isn't ready for a baby, you should =not= try to force it on him or trick him. (I assume this is something you talked about before you got married, anyway.)
If the question you are really asking isn't that you want a baby but that you want sex to be more natural, without a condom, get some birth control pills. If you take them as directed, your chance of getting pregnant is very low.
But whatever you do, don't deliberately miss pills in the hopes you will get pregnant and just be like, "Oopsie!". A baby is not something you want to have to deal with alone, and if you *trick* your husband into having one before he's ready, you may very well find yourself alone. A baby is the ultimate responsibility and should ideally be wanted and expected by both parties.
Try sitting down with him and asking him how he feels about having a baby. If he says not right now, ask him why. Then ask him what needs to happen before he is ready. Then at least you will have some idea of what he is thinking, and what the baby-timeline is, in his mind.
Good luck.
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if you want to get divorced from your husband yeah you should do that.
..fool.
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no getting him drunk isnt the way to go..i mean hes your husband! that wouldnt be very good..i think he needs to feel like he wants to ejaculate in you ..then he will do it. right now hes too uptight about possible pregnancy to ejaculate in you..until he feels comfortable ejaculating in you, its not going to happen. so talk to him about where he stands as far as you getting pregnant..consider going on the pill aLso
-melissa-
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I think if you want a baby you need to talk to your husband. It should be something you both agree on it it could cause problems on down the road. The last thing you want is for him to resent a little baby. It would be horrible for both you and the child. Talk and see if you can't get him to agree on having a baby. If he doesn't want one then find out the reasons why. :)
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