hi, well me and my husband are living nicly, our sexsual life is okay . but the problem lies he is so careful abt wearning condoms and not make me concieve, where as i desperatly want a kid. but i know if i get prgnant at any chance he would'nt do anything like obortion or something. how can i make him do sex and he won't get to know he has ejaculated? or how can i make him do it withen his senses? should i make him drunk?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Families? OneMan answered Monday August 15 2005, 7:04 pm: I can't advise your taking any deceptive actions to become pregnant. That will only serve to do more damage than good, and could also be a catalyst for his resenting the child on a deeper level.
I would suggest that you sit him down, and really explain to him your desire to have children and why it's so important to you. On the other hand, you have to leave yourself open to HIS reasoning for not wanting one. Maybe it's just temporary. Compromise is the key here and it's incredibly difficult to do when both parties are operating on one side of the court, namely, their own. Maybe he'll come around, but opening the lines of communication is the first step. Best wishes. [ OneMan's advice column | Ask OneMan A Question ]
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