Hello. My name is Kacie. My boyfriend and I have been together for about seven years now, so we are sexually active at this point. However, my boyfriend is in an advertising company and has to travel most of the time. So when he's gone, we have phone sex together. But everytime we have sex hard and fast, I end up bleeding because I keep hitting a bump which I think is the cervix but I am really unsure. What do you think might be causing my bleeding? PS: I do not use toys or anything when having phone sex with him. Thank you so much. - Kacie
TheOldOne answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 10:43 am: If you're being too rough with yourself, you might be cutting or tearing yourself accidentally, probably with your fingernails. But from what you've said, it sounds as if you're bleeding more than you'd expect from a relatively small cut or tear.
And I think you'd know if you were doing that sort of damage to yourself. It would hurt a lot.
Just guessing, but perhaps the bump is a cyst? The smart thing to do would be to check with your OB/GYN, just to be safe. Bleeding of that sort is definitely something to pay attention to; for one thing, you could get an infection.
MissKatie1230 answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 2:23 am: Actually, I misread that at first.
When you have phone sex hard and fast and you're actually inserting your fingers, it's possible that you can get a cut, perhaps from a fingernail. You may not even feel the cut, and it may not hurt. However, it can bleed.
ALSO: The bump you feel may be one of two things - your cervix or your pubic bone. If you feel this bump around three to four inches in, at the top of your vagina, it's your cervix. If you feel it nearly upon entering the vagina, it's more than likely your pubic bone.
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