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How Do You???
okay me and my boyfriend want to have sex.we are very comfortable.But my question is can someone tell me exactly what we do..like this is gonna sound stupid but how do you have sex? lol i rate high for good advice.
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Sorry, but if you're not sure how to do it. Then don't yet. Just wait til you know and your sure you wanna go through with it!
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How old are you!?!??! If your boyfriend dosent even know then your waaaaay to young, slow your ass down!!!!
u wanna be whore
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You know, i'm all for free love but quite frankly if you don't know how to do it, you shouldn't be doing it yet. However, if you DO want to know how to perform the physical act of love, you might try reading the book The Joy Of Sex, possibly available at your local library. Also, remember this-- it is absolutely imperative that you use protection. Birth control, condoms, etc. This is rather important. Trust me, you don't want a child at your age. If birth control is against your religion, then sex before marriage should be too. Think it over a bit, and when the time comes use protection.
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i know u love him but if you love him then wait. just wait. trust me its better off.save yourself for when you guys turn 18. you think its stupid that people are saying that but trust us! dont do it hun.
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Whenever I hear a question like that I want to say that if you dont know you probably shouldn't be having sex. Not because the question sounds stupid just because it sounds so innocent.
If you are so young and so niave not to have been exposed to the endless degree of movies, songs television and conversations that are pratically instruction manuals to sex, then you are probably to young to have sex.
Also, the first time is rarely nice. No ammount of research will prepare you. Almost everyone stumbles through at first and makes mistakes. You need to have the maturity and trust to communicate very well with your partner in order to make in enjoyable. That is the best 'how to' advice I have.
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I hate to say this, but if you don't know, there's a good chance that you're not ready for it.
I'll also take a minute to say that if you're much under 18, there are a lot of good reasons to wait. In many ways, you probably won't be ready to enjoy it properly.
And you need to be aware of the risk of pregnancy. You HAVE to know how to have safe sex if you're going to do it. Which means that you should talk to your OB/GYN about birth control options.
Okay. That said...the truth is, apart from the most basic mechanics (insert tab A into slot B, move back and forth, repeat) each person's approach to sex is different. There are all sorts of foreplay, for example. Since you are both presumably virgin, this is your chance to work out your own way.
Which means, *listen* to each other. TALK to each other. Find out what makes you both feel good. Experiment. Explore. That sort of thing.
And don't just listen to what you're saying with your voices. Sex is a way to communicate with your bodies. It's a whole different language. Fortunately it's a lot easier and a whole lot more fun to learn than Spanish. :D
Good luck, and be safe!
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i think if you have no clue how to do this then you probably shouldnt be doing it at all.. i mean if he dont know then deff you need to wait.. ♥ DEz
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