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my cuzin.... Ok...my cuzin like loves me a lot and i love her too but she's like really attached to me...i mean shes fun to be around but sometimes shes really annoying....i dont wanna say that to her but wut do i do!?!?!?
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next time she wants to do something say something to her like :
' we've been hanging out a lot lately..how about you find something to do with a friend? i was thinking of hangin out with (one of your friends name) for awhile'
she should get the picture..hopefully she does..but be careful because you dont want her going toooo much the other way and end up never hanging out with you..soo just be careful of that also
-melissa- ]
think of it this way. if you dont tell her how is she ever going to know to stop!? theres nothing else you can do but just be honest and tell her! you might hurt her feelings but she'll get over it.. ]
just be honist say to her you love spending time with her but sometimes it just gets to much say there are a few days when you would like to spend time on your own say it isnt her falt it just that if you see to much of eachother then your gonna get really anoyed with eachother and could end up arguing and not liking eachother just say you need your own space maybe a few days a week where you both do different things hope my advice helped ]
Talk to her. Don't say "sometimes you're really annoying." Tell her that sometimes you just wanna be alone... ask her if she understands, and if she doesn't tell her you love her, but sometimes when you wanna do your own thing, she gets in the way. make sure she knows you'll still spend plenty of time with her, but you deserve your alone time too, and she should understand that. GO0D LUCK!! X0-ARii-0X ♥ ♥ ]
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