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ME again.. let me re do this.


Question Posted Thursday August 4 2005, 7:16 pm

okay look I dated this guy and after me and him broke up he lost everything like his friends .. one of them who was his best friend likes me. THis girl who he *ex * started dating didnt' ask us if they could date nesscarily *and it's kind of good too expecially when one of them is your BEst friend right?* *this guy that likes me and my ex gf dated* So I dont want to be like them and i also dont want them to know about this cuase frankly we dont get along and it would confuse things a lot more. I'm not so sure i like this guy at all but he is really sweet to me I mean he knows about EVERYTHING that i went through after this break up *probably more than you do* and has said to me that I shouldnt have to go through that again b/c this guy i was in love with and i know i was BROKE ME. litterly. I was shattered. And he told me that he would never do that.. but that's only made me turn off to him b/c that's what my ex said to me when we started dating *we dated for like 7 1/2 months.* you see.. I dunno.. it is confusing. And i just Dont know what to do! i dont think i like this guy and he is way much more of a friend.. I dont want to hurt him in any kind of way.. and he said dont worry about hurting feelings So i said okay let's hang out sometime. which i do want to. but I just dont know any more. PLEASE help! i know this would be so much easier if i could say names but i dont want NE one to read it just in case they also read this. ~Special anonymous....

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xRoOxiSxBlOnDex answered Thursday August 4 2005, 7:22 pm:
Okay, I THINK I might know who this is; but please don't get offended if you aren't a person I know, context clues are just pointing me toward a person I consider a close friend, but it may just be a similar situation. [=

Since you said you would hang out with him, and you ARE friends, hang out with him. Even if it's in a big group. That way, you aren't making comments / promises that you don't keep, and you won't be hurting his feelings. If he continues saying things about dating you, just let him know that you really don't think you feel that way, and you'd appriciate if he didn't make comments. Sorry I'm not much help!! ]=
♥ Melissa

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