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WHO AND DO U BELIVE....
I grew up beliving that cheating was wrong, but the more I really think about it and the whole idea of sex, I've come to the conclusion the sex is more or less just expressions of how two people feel about each other, where at that moment in time or together as a couple, but when alot of people cheat they end up telling the other person, most say b/c they feel guilty.... my question is .. DO you think it's wrong of me to think and say "why tell the other person to make urself feel better and hurt them?" to me telling the our person is just selfish, thinking about urself. What's ur thoughts?
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hm, i definately see your point but i think cheating is being selfish enough..because your going behind the other persons back to have fun and afterwards coming home to the person you cheated on. i think just the idea of cheating is selfish, ya know? i mean at least if you tell the other person your bringing what you did to the table and (if you want to) say your willing to do something to fix it...or end the relationship because the person did cheat...
the subject can go back and forth from your valid point, to the point that cheating in the first place is selfish . i think releasing it is something perfectly human..living with the guilt isnt whats natural to us..
my opinion is that cheating is just wrong, and if you do cheat..telling the person will set you free..is it selfish? yeah it comes off as sounding selfish but i think if i had someone who i really cared about aand i cheated, i would end up telling
we're all different, and this is just my opinion.
thanks for the question, it made me think :)
-melissa-
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