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I think my friend has started to cut, but i'm not sure. A few of my friends and I are starting to get worried. She has tried sucidie before. How can I talk to her without her getting mad at me?
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Oh a tough one, well as someone who used to cut, i know the mentality. If you dont know if she cuts, do not try to subltly tell her cutting is bad like mentioning it and saying how terrible it is, if she does it this will just make her feel uncomfortable and make her trust you less.
I think the best thing to do is moniter her behaviour, see when she is most depressed, try to spend a lot more time with her when she is down.
If you really do think she is cutting, you will have to ask her if she is, but remember to assure her that you are all there for her and that you just want to make her happy, dont make her feel bad, and dont cry or anything because that will make her feel worse for making you unhappy.
If you need more help, come back to me. Hope it works and shes alright.
Take Care
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