I'm 14/f. Me and my best friend are in a big fight. She blocked me on aim and refuses to talk about me when my other friends bring up me. I messed up a lot of things last year and i understand why she's mad at me. But we were always there for each other. And when i went through this, she told me that i should get some help because she obviously wasn't helping me. She would then sign off (on aim). I've tried everything to atleast get her to forgive me. I'm not that interested in a friendship. I just hate having people mad at me. Any ideas???
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Loveneverdies answered Saturday July 30 2005, 12:48 pm: I believe, she doesnt want to talk to you. So dont try to talk to her.Do what she wants. If you've told her your sorry then she knows and you dont have to keep saying it over and over again.
This may not be what your looking for in an answer, but just leave her alone for a while, when she wants to talk to you, she will. She might even what to be friends with you again. I know the feeling about having people mad at you. But just say, she isnt mad at me.She is on vacation and cant call me cuz there arent any phone around. Might sound corny but it works for lots of people. So give it a try, it couldnt hurt.
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hope everything works out for you. If not, she wasnt worth your time and must not have been a good enought friend for you, and you deserve better friends. [ Loveneverdies's advice column | Ask Loveneverdies A Question ]
Orlandoxluva answered Saturday July 30 2005, 6:14 am: just write a letter and explain that your really sorry and that you don't like falling out with people and that you were wrong and make her feel really sorry for you tell her without her it's not the same and tell her you feel really depressed over it hope I helped [ Orlandoxluva's advice column | Ask Orlandoxluva A Question ]
navybrat302 answered Saturday July 30 2005, 3:02 am: Well, fights are tough with friends especially big ones when they give you the silent treatment and won't talk to or about you but I suggest that you just let her act that way for awhile. When I would fight with my friends I always acted that way and wouldn't talk to them about it. Eventually, she will talk to you if you keep trying. Good luck with it and hope everything turns out ok [ navybrat302's advice column | Ask navybrat302 A Question ]
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