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Okay, so it all started last year at cheerleading camp. The captain of our squad is fucking hot. The thing is, I kinda think I have feelings for her. I try not to think about her but I cant get my mind off of her. I heard from a few people that she's a bi, so that means i've got a chance. I'm really nervous to talk to her what should i say? This whole feeling is so new to me, i've never even thought about being a lesbian before. But when i think about her, it's just like no other feeling that i've ever felt. I don't even think that i've thought this way about a guy. What should i say to her??
*Signed, confused Lesbian*
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Well last year i had the same problem with one of my close friends. (i'm not bi as of right now) Things didn't work out for us though and in a way i'm thankful. Before doing ANYTHING, really ask yourself if you're gay or not. Sometimes people base their life long decision on how they feel about one person. Don't make that mistake. It's better to take it slow. Give guys a chance too!!!
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Well sweetie just because you have feelings for your squad captain doesn't mean that you are lesbian. Some people think they are bi, lesbian, gay when they are having family problems are really stressful problems. But since you believe you have feelings for your squad captain you just need to be forward and tell her the worst she can do is say no. Rejection sucks but it happens to the best of us. So just tell her. And also tell her this is your first time with feelings for a girl so she understands. Hope I helped. Hugs n kiss*s xoxo *Summer
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ok i dont agree with l angel..if you confront her and she isnt bi or wanting to experiment, she could and probably would spread this around and your life would be a living hell...i dont want to have you get hurt an embarassed. maybe get closer to her as a friend..dont hit on her or make her feel uncomfortable..then one night if your having a sleep over bring up the subject of experimenting..like mention "my cousin was telling me how her one friend wanted to experiment with her..what do u think about that" or something..do this after you guys get closer though
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lots of people feel this way just confrount her with this if your feelings are as strong as you say they are
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