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I still really love him but his girlfriend is my bf!
ok. here's the deal. I loved my boyfriend sooo much. we went out for 3 years. I went to flordia and one of my friends asked him out and he said yes and dumped me. I know...harsh..right?! well...we're still really good friends and him, my bf, and me went swimming bout a week ago and we ended up making out and I almost lost my virginity. He told me that we would go back out. The next day I saw him and his girlfriend making out. I asked him why and he said he was drunk yesturday(of course I didn't believe him) and that he didn't remember a thing. but he really was drunk cause my friend went to a bar before we went swimming and she said he was hammered. So..he said he was really sorry for what we had done and we made up and all that crap. yesturday, he said he was seriously considering goin back out with me and then his gf left and we hung out and he was laying on my lap and and holdin my hand and he kissed me (only a peck) once. Shoould I believe what he says? I really need help! PLEASE HELP! =(
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Did you and your (ex)boyfriend break up before you went to Florida? It didn't sound like it. So unless you did, or unless you two had an agreement that you could both date other people, then he cheated on you while you were away.
And then he dumped you, and yes, that's harsh.
If he loved you, why did he dump you? I'm guessing he's young, that you're ALL young, and young men in particular are, well, almost all so horny that there's not much room in them for anything else; faithfulness, for example.
(I know because I used to BE a young man. :D)
Maybe I'm wrong. But it seems to me that twice now he has basically shown you that he'll be with other women if he gets the chance. If you need more proof, he cheated on his new girlfriend with YOU - even if it was only a little peck, did he really think that that couldn't go anyplace?
Have you heard the old saying? "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on ME!".
You've managed to keep your virginity, and that's good (not that there's anything wrong with losing it, of course). You obviously know that you're someone special. It doesn't sound as if your boyfriend appreciates that, because if he did, he would never have left you to begin with!
There are boys out there who WILL appreciate you - so take your time and choose right. I think you'll end up much happier if you do.
Best of luck!
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