hey toni, i always feel like i have to change myself to fit in. like it seems nothing i do or whatever seems to be right to them. like im sort of friends with them but i get the feeling they dont really like me even though i talk to them usually. i dont know what to do
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? zagami answered Friday July 22 2005, 4:32 pm: k. i changed to fit in, and whoever this is you probably know that. Changing yourself to fit in with people is not the way to go. your friends will like you for who you are, and how you act, not how you dress or if your like them. why would you want to be like them? thats frikin boring. see, my friends liked me for who i was, and when i changed i lost friends. it was because i wanted to be like everyone else and i forgot about me. just like your doing, trying to change yourself to fit in to be friends with people. if you dont think they like you why would u keep hanging around with them... im pretty changed back, cause the summer is here and i just forgot about everything and started new, and now i have my friends back who i felt far away from, just from becoming me again. dont change though. -toni- [ zagami's advice column | Ask zagami A Question ]
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