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what do i do?
okay well theres this kid name ozzy and i like him as a friend but he likes me as more but i like this other kid that lives like 30 mins away and ozzy keeps asking me out and i told him i was going out with the other kid but even if i like ozzy i wouldny be able to go out with him cause hes dark and my moms racist in a way she just doesnt want me dating dark guys even if i was absolutely in love with them she wouldnt care it makes me mad but ozzy keeps hitting on me and asking me to flash him and stuff like that i have no clue what to do cause i still want to be friends with him you know some1 please help thanks ill rate 5s if its good advice
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Tell Ozzy that you value his friendship but aren't interested in taking your friendship into a relationship. If he truly cares about you as a friend, he will back off the dating thing to keep your friendship.
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Well, for a minute, let's forget about your mom. Forget totally. Pretend she's not even in the picture.
Ozzy... doesn't respect you. Any guy that will ask you to flash him doesn't respect you. I suppose there is the rare circumstance where they're just kidding, but I get the feeling that this isn't it.
You cannot date Ozzy. I mean, you can, but it would be bad for both of you. I think you need to tell him that you wouldn't date him if he were the last man on earth and distance yourself from him. Tell him you'd be glad to be friends though. But keep him at an arm's length; boys like that can be dangerous.
As for your mom... well, that sucks. But once you get out in the real world she won't be able to influence who you date. Still, Ozzy is not good for you, no matter what color his skin is. There are a lot of great black and Hispanic guys out there, but Ozzy is clearly not one of them, or at least not a dateable one.
Keep looking, and keep Ozzy at a distance. Still, boys like that can be great friends, as long as you keep them far away enough that they can't pull anything funn. So tell him that you only wanrt to be friends and don't let him get too close, physically or emotionally. You'll be fine. And good luck!
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well my bottle has 16 oz. haha i win.
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