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CALIFORNIA IS A LONG WAY AWAY.


Question Posted Thursday July 21 2005, 11:05 am

First of all..the guy that i am TOTALLY in love with lives in freakin CALIFORNIA while i live in new england. We live more than 3000 miles away! i got to know him because he is my dad's best friend's son.we can't go out to visit them for
2 and 1/2 years beacuse we cant afford it.i'm really bumming out because i think that he likes me too, but i'll never get the chance to tell him face to face! i'm dying here..advice please?


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VanityScore answered Thursday July 21 2005, 2:20 pm:
You could always talk to him over the internet...

If I were you, I probably would give up... you wouldn't be able to see him for over 2 years, and it would kind of be wasting your time. There's so many other guys out there that live.. well, not 3000 miles away.

It sounds harsh, but long distance relationships almost never work. Usually, you want to see the person you're dating. So why waste your time wishing for a guy who's not there?

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babyface answered Thursday July 21 2005, 1:18 pm:
Well try to ask him if he likes you or something like if he already has a g/f then just don't worry about it you guys could still be friends like really best friends but if he dosen't have a g/f just talk a little bit ask him what he is like and stuff like that and he might ask you those questions and then he might just get interested in you. And then he might ask you out!
Hope i helped!


P.S I WOULD LIKE FEEDBACK!

~*Melinda*~

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I_Love_You_x3 answered Thursday July 21 2005, 1:11 pm:
Well, i would try to talk to him as much as you can. either aim or email or phone. try to get to knoew him and tell him how much he means to you and ask him if he feels the same. also, try to save money to help pay for the cost to go to California. you might be able to go earlier if you have more money. hope i helped !

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askamyanything answered Thursday July 21 2005, 12:01 pm:
It's great when you hit it off like that, huh? But we have to face facts here. You may never see him again f2f, so go for it and just tell him the impression he left on you. You've got nothing to lose. Believe me its better than building this guy up in your imagination as Mr. Right and then no one else can compare. I had a very similar relationship..I'll share if you want the details.

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