Hey my name's christina and im 14. This is one of those "cant-get-over-my-ex" type of questions. well me and this guy were going out for a year and 2 months. we had a really good relationship most of the time. He always told me he truly loved me and i think i might have really been in love with him. well, 10 months into the relation we had sex. Then 2 months ago we broke up. When we first broke up we'd still talk on the fone and see eachother everyday and sometimes we still had sex even tho we weren't going out. then i heard he was using me for sex and so i stopped talking to him. well we are talking again and he claims he still loves me. i love him alot and i dont know what to do? should i believe other people that say hes using me or should i believe him that hes not and still loves me? Thanks!!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MELiixMARiiE answered Monday July 18 2005, 10:34 pm: Well if you really love him alot ; then maybe you should give him another chance. But if you do, I would suggest just seeing his reactions and what he does around you. If like.. two days after you're going out and he suggests sex, then you can tell that he's just using you and you should dump him. But if he just wants sex whenever you two are both comfortable and etc., then he's probably not using you at all, and he does care. So just see if he acts like that at all. And if you guys do break up again/ or just not go out at all again.. I might wanna suggest not really talking to him anymore, cause then all your emotions will come back, and then the whole thing will just repeat itself =/ but if you think you can talk to him without having feelings come back ; then I don't see why you couldn't. I hope I helped! IM me if you want to talk some more!!
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