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I'm not the bad gal!


Question Posted Friday July 15 2005, 11:34 pm

So my sister stole from my wallet and was really devious about it (she changed some bills that she gave me, because she owed me, for the bills I had had before she paid me back) I know she is really hard up for money and doesn’t have a job or anything and I can forgive her in time but what really bugs me is when I told my parents they both insulted me and said I was loosing my temper and being a liar. Now I’m furious and think they should have at least listened to my side but they didn’t! I’m pissed with my whole family and don’t know what to do about it!

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JadedinNowhere answered Monday July 18 2005, 9:11 pm:
Hrm. Anger release methods.. *ponderponder* I like to kick things when I get angry, namely pillows into the wall, kick the door, scream cuss.. lose control. Yep yep. Of course, a lot of the time I express my anger in a healthy manner, such as art. Like.. writing lyrics, or drawing some morbid angry picture. People think I'm creepy for it, but whatev, it helps believe me.


Also being a teen, we have these things called hormones that piss us off extra. To drown out these stupid little biotches play your music really really loud. Tis fun.


For your situation, it seems that you need to get it out that "Dude, my sister stole my cash!" You could always eat at her concious for about a week, with names like "clepto.", "swiper no swiping!", and any other creative little things you can think of. Use your brain, this is the fun part of revenge.


Anyway, GOOD LUCK. I'd like to hear more about this, because I happen to have time like that, so drop it by my box if you feel like it. Whatev, no pressure.


-Sarah-

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Alpha345 answered Friday July 15 2005, 11:48 pm:
I have a friend who has been in this similar situation. His older brother freeloads off his parents, really has no work, is lazy, and whenever my friend tries to bring this up his parents just kinda make up an excuse and let it slide. What I would say to do is catch your sister in the act if she tries to do it again (with either you or your parents, I'm sure if she can take from you she will have no problem taking from your parents). Because then you can show your parents what is really going on and will have proof to back it up with. If that doesn't work then just keep bringing it up with your parents about it and try and find a resolution. Also try confronting your sister on it, try and work something out. Also you might try putting your wallet in a safe location (just in case!). Also your right they should have listened to your side of the story completely before going off on you like that but the only thing you can really do againts that is stick with what you know happened. Also to settle your anger up a bit, find your own little "corner" of the house, a place where you feel best with yourself and have some privacy. Then when your cooled down a bit, go and try and find a resolution. I hope this helped and I hope that everything get's better for you.

-Ryan

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