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Nun ya
I like my best guy friend lets call him c and we have chemistry but he likes the good to shoes girl who is perfect i want to be the perfect person but i can't tell him what do i do
signed confused:-)
I rate all fives thnx
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No wonder you are confused. No one is perfect. But when you are young, like you and your friend "C" and the goody two shoes girl, it is actually possible to think that perfection is attainable. You base your judgements and opinions on the stars and models you see in movies, magazines, billboards, cd covers, etc, etc. But those are staged photos, under great lighting, with hair dressers and make up artists, and air brushing, all to make that person look great. In person they just look like they have a lot of make up on.
It is possible, however to be considered "perfect" by someone who loves you. SOmeone who sees you flaws for what they are, just being human, and loves you anyway. And hopefully you love that person back the same way. It doesn't always happen when you want it to. But it does happen. Work on making the person you are inside perfect, so that when you do meet the right man, you can be his "goody two shoes". He will think you are perfect. And you will be thrilled. And most important, you will be cherished.
In other words, stay out of trouble, get an education so that you have more choices in life, even more men to choose from. The good times won't be there for you until you are in your 20's. So don't ruin things for yourself now. Be patient, get an education, be smart. Especially, be confident. Men find that to be very sexy. They can't resist confident women. I know thatyou can do that.
GOod luck to you
Michele
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