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Question Posted Monday July 11 2005, 1:30 pm

okay .. i've been best friends with these 2 girls for as long as i can remember. when we got into middle school, they started acting all bitchy and ignoring me and my other best friends. they also lie ALOT and think they're better than everyone and talk about people who they're friends with. recently, something happened that wasnt my fault at all, yet they blamed it on me. i thought the best thing to do would be just to ignore them when they tried to be mean to me, but they just spread rumors about me and try to make it seem like i did something wrong, and go out of there way to make me feel bad. i don't want to apologize for something i didn't do. do you think there's something i could do to make the whole situation better ??

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xxurockxx answered Wednesday July 13 2005, 9:20 am:
so this year i had friends like that....i stopped talking to them and got REAL friends...that made the school year a LOT better
7th and 8th grade i had the whole rumor situation and people being mean to me for something i didnt do. i just once again ignored them and got REAL friends. they eventually stopped. i know it sucks while its happening but if you have real friends there for you to back you up you wont even worry about it. i mean its all middleschool bullshit. its the whole POPULARITY thing!!! in highschool, there is none of that popularity bullshit!!! its better to be hated for WHO YOU ARE then to be loved for WHO YOU'RE NOT!!! be yourself and find people that can love you for you and stop just caring about themselves. they will stop and it will go away if you dont let them know that it gets to you! I PROMISE!!!
you could also just apoligize to them that they think that you did that but clearly state that you didnt. if they are still bitches..FUCK THEM!!!

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