There is this guy, we are really really good friends. He really likes me and he tells all my friends and asks my friends to ask me if I like him. Well I don't like him more as a friend. and once he started really liking me he became weird and acting different. I really dont like that, and I don't want him to ask me out.. but if he does what do I do?? I don't want to ruin our friendship. and any other advice dealing with this? please and thank you! <3
X0C0URT answered Friday July 8 2005, 7:47 pm: I know how you feel. This is a really tough situation because you don't want to hurt his feelings but you don't want it to be awkward for you. Whatever you do, don't flirt with him at all because it'll send him the message that you're into him too. If he does ask you out, let him down gently. Tell him that he's a great friend and you don't want to ruin that. If neccesary, just say that you're not interested in more than a friendship. Hope this helps!
Sarah2169 answered Friday July 8 2005, 7:45 pm: well, if he asks you, tell him that you would rather just be friends instead of having that kind of relationship. Maybe he'll understand. But dont tell him that infront of all his friends, that might embarrass him. Tell him when its just you and him. [ Sarah2169's advice column | Ask Sarah2169 A Question ]
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