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Girlfriend Help
okay this is a little long im sorry but heres the situation, i have a kickass girlfriend who treats me awesome and that i love to death, but the problem is shes entirely to attatched to me, the seldom days that we dont see eachother she calls constantly and doesnt realize the fact that i have my own life (and friends)and cant spend every waking moment with her. We both just graduated high school this year and are going to colleges in seperate states, she wants to stay together and thinks that we will eventually get married, but lately the way shes been acting has more annoyed me than attracted me to her and i dont know what to do. I would love if you could help me out with this and the entire situation of long distance relationships. Thank you so much
-Grant
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Yeah I definately cannot stand it when I have a boyfriend who is completely attached to me and feels if hes not with me every minute he'll suffocate. You need to be honest with her, tell her that EVERYONE needs time to be alone, it's part of human nature both wanting to be with people and also wanting to be alone.Tell her when you need a break, and hopefully it doesn't make her upset, but you need to think about you as well as her.Doesn't she have any friends?Tell her to hang out with her friends, have fun with the girls i dont think she'll get upset if u put it that way.Now, long distance relationships are SO hard.I had one and it didnt last for me because i couldnt stand not being able to touch him.But if you can handle it, then go for it.But you have to make sure you guys see each other at lease once every couple months or so or make sure every holiday break when you go to see family you see her too, or else the relationship will not work.If you need to know ANYTHING else leave it in my inbox.
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christine
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