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i'm so confused
Well let's see....There's this boy that I really like....And a couple weeks ago it seemed like he liked me 2 ...well even then he had a girlfriend but everyone knew that relationship wouldn't work out.....Now he goes out with this other girl that goes to his church during the summer and some during the school year....What really got to me was that I thought he liked me and might would ask me out after him and the first girl broke up but apparently he didn't and it kinda makes me mad cause the girl he dates now is a total slut.... What do I do I mean he is just bound to get hurt by her and I mean I really like him?
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If you wanted advice on how to stay miserable - I definately answered the wrong question. I was trying to tell you that even though you may THINK you know someone you don't and trying to break them up WILL NOT HELP YOU. If you didn't want the truth, you shouldn't have posted.
Baby girl, there is absolutely nothing you can do about who he is with. And why would you? It wouldn't make him like you or want to be with you. If you really like him, then respect him enough to have his own life and if he wants you in it he will ask you to be. And watch those finger pointing accusations of people (calling the other girl a slut) - that is just ugly and you don't know where she is or what she is dealing with. Don't hate on her because of him. Just find someone else. It's obvious that if he wanted to be with you, he would have asked you...and he didn't. Let it go. Maybe when they break up he will be into you - but breaking them up will not help you!!!
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alright, i dont want to be mean but ask yourself this question. do you know that he is gonna get hurt by her or do you just want him to so you can have him? well, you should think about that. confort him if you REALLY think he is in some sort of trouble. tell him that your his friend and will always be there for him. but other than that you have nothing else to do. you know wat they say...if you love them let them go...
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There isn't much you can do. Everyone has to learn from their own mistakes. If you try to tell him she's a slut...well, its you that he will think badly about. He will only feel sorry for her because he'll think you're picking on her. He may just like you as a friend right now since he didn't ask you out when he could have. That's okay. Keep being friends because sooner or later he will realize that you already have a good relationship and may ask you out.
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if you really like him than you should tell him and tell him that you do not think he should go out with that slut he is proble going to get hurt well hoped i helped
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he might just not really like you. you should let him finish with this girl and then see what happens. you might still be able to go out with him. talk to him when he gets done with the slut. she'll be done with him soon enough. good luck,
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