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friend issues
I have tons of friends, quite a few good friends, and 9 best friends. but I dont have one or two BEST friends. It kinda bugs me because most of my 9 best friends all have one or two BEST friends. i love all my friends to death, but something seems to be missing.
also, i am so different than my other friends and i really dont fit in with any of them. we are going into high school in the fall and i am SO nervous that they will split into a couple different groups and i'll be left to wander.
I also have trust issues i guess you could say. I have such a hard time trusting my friends. i feel like i cant talk to them about hard stuff because i'm supposed to be the strong one, that looks out for them. I end up keeping everything bottled up cuz i have no one to talk to. it's just so difficult because i have so many great friends, but i always feel like there is never anyone there for me.
Any advice on any of these friend issues would be appreciated thanks.
-14/f
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If they're your best friends, they'll probably listen to you. You probably can't trust them because you've never tried. Maybe you're a very secretive person and won't spill the beans easily. But give it a shot anyway, and if they don't listen to you, then you should find new friends
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well dont try to change to fit in with them. if there you friends find one really really good one who you can trust i have a friend like that named danielle she is sucha sweethart and if you find one like her then your set. hope i helped *Kelley*
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If they are such great friends they would ask you if theres anything wrong or maybe you can tell them straight up dont keep everything bottled up. If they stay by your side in good /bad conditions then they really are your real friends but if they dont then you need to find better friends than them.I hope I helped.
Kate
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i say you wear dark makeup, forget you had friends, and talk emo and gothic and melodramatic... that should solve ALL your problems... j/k
you should appreciate what you have.. you have friends.. hell, you even said that you have best friends, what are you complaining about? if they aren't your friends, then drop what you have and when highschool starts, find some new ones... forget stereotypes and just go and be yourself.. they say in life you only have as many friends as you have fingers...
and last but not least.. don't worry about it.. it sounds like you have enough friends to protect you in an even blanket of comfortableness...
don't sweat it.
<3
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