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Not sure what he wants
Hi..I am the typical girl ( age 23) confused by a guy:S There was this guy I was seeing for about a month. We hung out a few times as friends (met through a friend) and then we went out one night to a club and ended up together the whole night..dancing and then he kissed me and was holding my hand. So anyways we left the club and went back to his house to eat takeout. One thing led to another and we ended up having sex. I tried not to and he stopped a couple times because he said it was up to me but I couldn't resist the urge sp I told him to keep going. I don't usually do that type of thing but I hadn't had sex for 4 months and couldn't help myself:S Anyways I figured okay this is it. I just ruined the friend thing..even though we only knew eachother about a month. But after he wanted me to cuddle up with him the whole night and we fell asleep like that. He set his alarm for me because I had to get up early and then I went home the next day. A couple days later he called me to hang out again. So we ended up going out for about a month, we never had sex every time we hung out but when we did have sex we'd have it at least 2 times that night. Finally after a week of me calling and him not having time to hang out or whatever I gave up..Then a couple weeks later my friend met him in a club and he asked her why I stopped calling him..He said he thought we had a good thing going. :SShe asked why he had stopped calling me. He said he lost my number because he used to just use the caller ID and call me back when I had called. So anyways I ended up running into him again later that week and we chatted and he asked me to call so after a couple days I figured why not. So that night we went out and hung out with his friends, then got fast food and ate it at his house. Then he wanted me to stay because it was late and I told him I wasn't having sex with him that night. So he said that was ok..we'd just cuddle and go to sleep. So that's what we did. We cuddled up together and talked until I fell asleep..
I am soo confused because he never used to call me much ..I used to have to call him.Now he wants to go out again and I don't know what to do. Does he just want to have sex with me?? Because we both admitted that it was great when we did.
I just need to know what your opinion on how he might be feeling is?
Thanks I would really appreciate it
Confused..
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Believe it or not i read that whole thing. I dont know why he stopped calling you or anything like that... hes in his 20's... very busy time in a persons life. Maybe he just needed some space for alittle bit. No big deal. And if you want to find out if he just wants to have sex with you... first off if thats all he was using you for... he would of never stopped calling you lol. But he also wouldnt say he is fine with "cuddling and falling to sleep." Maybe he would go along with it the first time... but if he was looking for sex and you kept not giving it to him.. and he still stuck around then theres your answer. But dont deprive him... i mean sex might not be all he is looking for... but everyone has their needs.
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He has went out with you without having sex. So, I doubt that is the soul reason for it. Maybe he likes you! I think you should discuss what you're feeling with him. Start out your relationship talking and hopefully you will continue. :)
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i think you should give this guy a chance, he could just want to be with you, but the only person you can really ask is him and get the answer. I think you should go out with him, and make it clear to him you dont want to have sex with him, and if thats the reason he wants to be with you then he should just give up and stop trying because its not what you want. I hope i helped, and leave sumthing in my inbox sumtime and tell me how things went. Hope i helped
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