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How to tell him??


Question Posted Wednesday June 22 2005, 12:30 am

Sorry if this is long!!Ok I am a 13/f, and ok My Friend (well call him X) X and I were best friends then we went out!! then for like 4 months we would flirt and we werent as good as friends well now Me and X are getting were we are really good friends again but see i really do like him and i want to be honest with him on how i feel but see i dont no how to tell him or how to talk to him about it with out getting scared!! See and this isnt some kind off crush X is really nice and he treats me with respect and i dont no he is just like really awesome i feel safe with him and i feel like nothing is going on it just me and him and there is nothing that isnt perfect like all my problems have gone away!! And i no one thing is i dont want to lose him and the reason why we broke up was because people were telln him that we were a bad couple and that were we not cute and they just wouldnt leave us alone about it!! so that why we broke up and i really want to go out with him again!! yes i have had another relationship with other people !! but hes the one i want!!
So can you try and do your best on giving me advice plez anythig will help!!


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cheeriosluvr answered Wednesday June 22 2005, 1:02 am:
tell him and maybe hell ask you out agin. if you guys already went out before then he trust you and you should trust him back so try to get him alone one day and tell him. you could also try to prepare for it ahead of time by saying in your mind wat your gonna say like "X i like you" or somtin like tat.

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Krupple answered Wednesday June 22 2005, 12:45 am:
It sounds like you're going to be nervous no matter how you approach him. You could try writing your feeling down if you find it hard to talk.

It also looks like your friendship has already been hurt once because you two got serious. I've had the same thing happen to me.

If you two broke up because his friends continually told him you weren't a cute couple, he's obviously not viewing your relationship from a mature standpoint.

You just have to weigh the positives and negatives of telling him. You can also make a list of the positives and negatives if it helps. Just make sure you are willing to risk your friendship.

Hope this helps.

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