hey i think my boyfriend is fallin for one of my best friends what do i do?!?!? i dont wanna ask him ! b/c it will be drama drama drama so what should i do it already happen to me and it was the same best friend just a different guy thats why he broke up with me for her and he went out with me to for her but i think he fallin for her but i dk and liek he tell me he loves me and all kinds of stuff what should i do? signed: -im in love!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Health & Fitness category? Maybe give some free advice about: Nutrition? All_4_Him_4eva answered Monday June 20 2005, 2:53 pm: Talk talk talk... talk to him about it. don't be afraid of his reaction. if he gets defensive, calm him down and talk some more. if he won't calm down, take a short, simple guess - let em go. don't be afraid of the hurt and of the pain b/c it takes some to get to the one. trust me, you'll know when someone truly loves you when you can 1.) trust and tell that they're truly interested in you and only you and 2.) talk to them about it and your feelings. but don't be hurt if he does leave you for this other girl. granted, your heart may be with him but you should be able to (or should learn to) shelter your heart and keep it from the pain of untruthfulness. plus you obviously have ample time and warning in case he goes buh-bye. just play it out and talk to him... and don't be afraid. Hope I Helped and Good Luck
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