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My BestFriend Has Changed.
*_Ok first sorry if this is sorta long. Anyway..Theres this girl and iv'e been friends with her for 8 Years. Since we got into Highschool she dramatically changed her personality. And is currently hanging around people TOTALLY different from me. For example,my friend used to be a classic beauty queen, a beautiful girl, With a wonderful personality.. Now she dyed her hair red + black (from blonde) and is wearing all black, shes sorta goth/punk. And her and I did everything together, i loved her with all my heart as a bestfriend, and i know she loved me as much .. or maybe even more :) But now all of a sudden, i cant hang around her because she tells me to go away, only because im different than her new friends and she told me she doesnt want me to get judged by them. (for the reason of she doesnt want to see me get hurt). And, i really get depressed because i miss her so much, her and i were so alike, and we had a friendship that you honestly would never expect to dissapear. So i had to talk to her, she told me she doesnt want me to change to become friends again, or the same for her. But i honestly dont want to lose a bestfriend like her, because i love her too much. I know this is hard, but what should i do?
Thanks Always,_* Alli xO JustAskAlli@Advicenators.com
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aww these things are so hard! yeah one of my friends was trying to dress punk and all that but i still stuck around her anyway haha. i dont know if you have told her that you really miss your relationship with her and that you really really dont want it to end because you value it. i mean how can that not get into her head? haha but ya know maybe she also needs space ya know? if she doesnt get the whole talk maybe you could leave her a little space but still call her and maybe in a little while ask whats going on. she really should try to understand that you really dont want you to to not be best friends if she doesnt i dont know what to tell you i usually just dont hang out with mine for awhlie and then oo we're back together again haha! good luck! but definitly tell her how you feel!
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