I'm on my summer holiday and my dad and my mother are absolutely getting on my nerves. They know that it bothers me and it really angers me. I wish that they'd shut up with it all. They argue about everything and it has always caused issues for me since I was a child. I have always protected my dad and I have always repressed my feelings because I was always worried about them. Pleasing them and being perfect for them and it feels like I receive nothing. Nothing. I don't know what to do and the pain. I don't know how to deal with it all. They are really gettting to me and I want to know how I stop them from driving me crazy. I know that I'm not happy and that's what bothering me and I want to know exactly how to be happy. I just never knew it truly. I don't know how to deal with it at all. I have no one to talk to . We have no car so I am stuck in this house for all summer and I will flip if I don't get away from my dad who's husslin' me about my weight just because he doesn't understand what it is to have womanly curves . How in the hell do I deal with this. Because I'm on the verge of doing them some serious harm if they don't stop because nothing seems enough after all the things that I have done for them. Help me out please.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? karazimonki answered Friday June 10 2005, 2:28 pm: Tell your dad that you don't care that much and he should let it be.
You can't repress your feelings you need to talk and you could be reading this and saying i know but its harder then just talking but too bad the same thing happens to me I repress myself and it s killing me and ever since my dad taught me to not repress so much and talk more I have feel alot better so TALK you have to force yourself to talk you will feel alot better I promise
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If you absolutly can't talk then write everything in a journal it helps and it's alot eaiser take your journal and a pen(cil) with you everywhere and write whenever you feel like it write whatever comes into your head and this journal is like a diary top secret for your eyes only.
I hope I helped
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mynameispat21 answered Thursday June 9 2005, 11:52 am: i know how u feel cuz i live in a family wiht 8 kids and all of them are younger except 1 so just try and go outside and do stuff by yourself or go to a friends house. just try and do stuff with friends or by yourself [ mynameispat21's advice column | Ask mynameispat21 A Question ]
xOlUvChAdoX answered Wednesday June 8 2005, 9:27 pm: Go out by yourself! I know that sounds stupid but if you really want to get out that bad go for walks around your neighborhood, go to a park, find people to hand out with! [ xOlUvChAdoX's advice column | Ask xOlUvChAdoX A Question ]
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