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Theres this girl at my school I was friends with her @ the begining of 6th grade but now,and i dont mean to be harsh or anything, be she really freaks me out. I dont care what she dresses like or looks like, but its her personality that really accually scares me. I'm really not the person whos gonna tell her to screw off, but i really dont want to be around her shes always near me in a few of my classes. She thinks were best friends, but were so not. I dont no what to do.
Signed,
want to let her down easy.
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Dear let down,
okay.. [ hopefully first of all this isn't one of my friends who are talking about me<b>!</b> ] anyways... there is no way to let someone down easy. That's just how life is. I know how that feels, and i Know you must feel bad about it. Give it time and maybe she will get the message that you two are going your separate ways. It might help if I knew how long y`all have been friends for, but that doesn't matter. Do not shrug her off, nobody wants that. If it bugs you that much, when she does something that annoys you, <i>tell her</i> Don't however, say you hate her personality completely, because that isn't true. If you tell her what is bugging you- she might improve that behavior. If her personality isn't getting better, [pushes you even when you say stop, or laugh at you while your trying to be serious] ignore it or her for a while, life does go on. But that doesn't mean you need to give up a friendship! Hope it helped..
Melinda
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