hey rose,
i have a really good friend and i really like her a lot. she is fun to hang out with and stuff. the only problem is that evryone else hates her and thinks that shes annoying. sometimes, she ditches em in the hall to talk to the preps cuz she thinks that they actually like her. i mean i love her a lot(as a friend),but sometimes she does get annoying. wen i talk to her about a problem, she says that im controlling. what do i do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? hollisterhottie91 answered Wednesday June 8 2005, 3:38 pm: Well... dont do what other people do like if you really like her, then it doesnt matter that people think shes annoying, because what if you stopped being friends because of what THEY thought. And if she thinks people like her that dont, then let her think that because maybe she gets joy out of it. You know? Now, the other part is more of a biggie. Everyone gets annoying now and then, and the fact that she says you are controlling is what gets me. If she says you are controlling, you should just say "I just want you to know because i dont want people to think you're annoying" try it and see what happens. GREAT question by the way. Let me know how it goes!!!
xoxo, rose [ hollisterhottie91's advice column | Ask hollisterhottie91 A Question ]
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