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this girl ..


Question Posted Friday June 3 2005, 6:59 pm

okay she there is this girl ( lets call her mary ) she copys me in everything i do and makes rude comments about my hair or my clothes and then the next day she has the same hair style or clothes and it gets really annyoing for example we do dance , cheering , and track together for dance i moved up in a class and i was higher then her in one class and she has to be the same level as me so she has her mom go in and complain that she isnt in my class and track since i am a fast runner she wasnt picked for varsity and she had her mom complain and for cheerleading since i am a flyer and she is a base she like told me that i wasnt cordinated enoguh to be a flyer and in ballet i got picked for a part with a group of people that she didnt get picked for and then she says to me your gonna fall off the stage and another example i wear my hair in a messy bun and she said it looked ugly and bad and the next day she wore it jsut like mine and i got this really cute blue and black baby phat jacket and she said it was too bright and ugly anf for dance pictures she wasnt ordering the same package as me and i told her what i was getting and she ordered the same one cause i was getting it and she always follows me around and does what i do and this has even gotten so bad that adults are notcing it like at dance they moved me away from her and changed my classes because she copys everything i do and follows me and this rude remakrs dont hurt my feelings they actually make me laugh and if she says something rude like you look bad and i just make a rude remark back like i look better then you could ever and i tried talking to her about this problem and she said that she dosent copy me this is soo annoying please help me and tell me what too do i rate high

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aliciadear answered Friday June 3 2005, 9:33 pm:
she idolizes you, it's like flattery. she obviously thinks your cool, so lightly, suggest she make some decisions on her own and not copy so much.

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Teza answered Friday June 3 2005, 9:26 pm:
Haha! Its like shes stalking you! Its creepy!! Oh my gosh, you totally need to tell her to fuck of. I mean just talking to her wont work so you have to say it and mean it. Shes so jelous of you and she wants to be exaclly like you! I mean exacly. Stand up to her and just dont hang out with her anymore tho. I agree with "Shake" so you should do exacly what she said. She wouldnt have anything to say at all. She will stop eventually. But by her saying all those things she wants you to feel bad so when you dont she gets mad and does it more. L0L just dont ever let her bother you or get you upset. ♥

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shake answered Friday June 3 2005, 7:46 pm:
Dont be her friend anymore. Or when she copies you say 'you look like crap' when she says WELL YOU WORE IT YESTERDAY say 'so now you're copying me? I wore it yesterday now you wear it today? i thought it looked bad'

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