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hmm this is a little randon but its bugging me
why do parents always say "your not in love its just puppy love" how the hell do they know i mean they arent you and all that and just because they didnt find love and all that at the age of 15 and 16 doesnt mean that others cant sometimes people do find love right? that just gets on my nerves so much when my mom does that
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Well, I suppose I can think of two "Reasons" heRe??
---They'Re old geezeRs, and have foRgotten what it's like to be young. haha
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---They have lived enough of theiR life to know that MOST of the "loves" they had in high school and duRing theiR youngeR days was NOT "love" at all, because they have come to FIND it now.
WhicheveR the case... only *YOU* know if it is tRuly LOVE oR not. NO ONE ELSE CAN FEEL FOR YOU!!
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Love is something that no one actually knows. In this country you're lucky to find true love, because as we have seen there are too many people that think they are in love, get married and then divorced. Love is something that everyone is constantly figuring out, so neither you or your mother are right... to each his own perception of the world and one's relationships.
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The reason they tell you that is because, believe it or not, your parents were 15/16 at one time, and they know from experience that most relationships at that age don't last, mostly because there's still an awful lot to learn about love and life at that point. Yeah, it gets annoying to hear it, but the intent isn't mean - they just don't want you to get too carried away in it, because they likely do remember what it was like.
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