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Love is never easy.
I am in love with this guy. He is my ex-boyfriend and he broke up with me for reasons that no longer exist. Well, I love him and he's in love with this girl. She's in love with someone else and is in a serious relationship with him. My ex is really unhappy. He helps those two see each other as often as they can and he takes the noble way. He told her that he loved her and she ran away. In fact, he's only told two people "I love you" and they both have run away. He has this large void that needs filled. His mother is dead. And his father doesn't see him. He lives with his Aunt and Uncle. I wish there was something I could do to make him happy. He knows I love him and that I'll always be there for him. He just doesn't love me. I'm not trying to get him to love me, I just wish there was something I could do to make him happy. His happiness is the most important thing to me. He poured his soul out to me last night and we cried together for two hours. I know he likes me. I mean what guy stares at the front door when you go inside for an extra few minutes and doesn't care about you. Everyone also thinks he's using me. I don't think he is because he still has some feelings for me. I mean we hit 2nd base last weekend (my first time) and we made out a lot. I want to know where do I go from here. I wish I could fill that void in his life because I would do anything for him. Is there someway that I could help him get this girl to love him or for him to get over her? What can I do to help?
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ok well you love him, and it is obvious he does care for you alot. I think that you need to give him time to realise the girl he likes does not like him. The thing is that if you ever had a realationship with him it would not work if he still loved or liked the other girl and you would become upset when you break up because he might tell you he loves her. There is no real answer to making him happy i don't think you can make the girl like him! she has someone and does not want him. I know what it feels like to love someone who loves someone else although i am 16 and you might say i don't know what love is because i have never made out but he liked someone else there was nothing i could do. Although i went out with him i then realised i am waisting time he still loves the other girl. I am now friends with him although we don't talk anymore i am leaving him to realise i cared for him and he might not realise now but he will.because also the girl he liked hated him so much.So what i am trying to say is he needs to realise you love him without you telling him you do. I think if you looked for someone else and went out with someone else i bet he would become jealous. Then he would realise you loved him and he had a chance with you and if he did not want to take it he has lost it now. Although don't use the new man.
love sweetcorn xxx need any advice inbox me
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This guy is the first of many. If you don't understand that people come in and out of your life very easily- then life will be hard. You should take your friends advice, they are most often the ones that see what you don't - "ie. him using you." It sounds like you are having trouble drawing a line between lust and friendship. You can care about him, but if he doesn't treat you well, which it looks like he doesn't, then 2nd base means nothing. Get out of there girl he is not doing anything good for you.
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All you can do is be there for him to talk to. Forget the bases...they are for more than friends. If this girl doesn't like him he needs to be looking for another. The longer he dwells the more upset he'll be. You can't fix everything for him...or anyone else for that matter. Just be a good friend. :)
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