ok so i'm 13 and i have a really great bf. but i cheated on him and had sex with this other guy thats in 9th grade. and thats not the worst though:( I hooked up with 2 other girls about a week later. i feel really bad because my bf has no idea and he treats me so good and i dont want to break his heart. what do i do? and also i kind of have been hanging out with girls more lately and i think i might be bi...is that bad?
-confused bisexual
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? shortiebebe021 answered Wednesday May 25 2005, 5:52 pm: i know you already know this, but you SHOULD NOT have done that to your boyfriend! imagine if he did it to you? and he treats you really well too, that was really unfair of you to do that. so everyone makes mistakes, but still. if i were you, i'd stop hooking up with people (unless you actually turn out to be bi and start liking girls, then you could dump him for a girlfriend i guess...or another guy). if you don't want to break his heart, then don't cheat on him anymore. simple as that and if you feel the urge to hook up with someone STOP, think "my bf wouldn't do this to me..why am i doing this to him??". and being bi is totally not a bad thing!! most people you know aren't bi but that doesn't mean anything, it's just who you are and there is nothing wrong with being bi. people only make fun of bisexuals because they're different, and it's just stupid and mean that they do that. sorry i support gay rights, dude they can't help it, but yeah it's not bad at all don't worry about it :) good luck!! [ shortiebebe021's advice column | Ask shortiebebe021 A Question ]
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