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Dislike kissing
Hi, I was hoping you'd be able to help me out.. I have more of a quiery then a question. Is it normal to dislike kissing? I mean.. me and my bf have only kissed a few times but everytime he's gone straight into frenching and I really don't like how it feels! It reminds me of openmouthed wet fish! :S Do you think maybe it's something one of us is doing wrong? Or maybe kissing just isn't for me? I'm kinda shy about it and he's understanding and doesn't kiss me unless I'm okay with it, but I feel like such a loser lol :( (17/f)
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Heh. You're probably just not used to Frenching, or just not into it, which is also totally normal.
Just let him know that closed-mouth kisses are sometimes cool too. I had a guy that always kissed me, but it was like, messy, and I hated kissing, especially french kissing. It was like, sloppy, wet, and he kind of tried to gag me with his tongue...Anyway,
It might be that he's using too much tongue for your tastes. Next time, if you want to (and only if you want to) try playing with just the tip of your tongue to let him know that's how you like it. If you don't like tongue at all, that's cool too. It took me awhile to get used to it.
You are not a loser, honey. Lol. It's completely fine not to like Frenching. Just let him know that, or that it's just not your thing, and that you like closed-mouth kisses. Frenching every single time you kiss is not fun. I mean hell, my guy's great at frenching, but I still wouldn't want to do it every time we kissed. Sometimes those closed-mouth kisses make you just as dizzy as the openmouthed kisses do. (Or moreso, in some cases.)
Just tell him (nicely) to lay off the tongue and use his lips. Lol. Kissing's for everyone at some point. It's just a matter of the TYPE of kissing, and on occasion, the person you're kissing.
I'm gonna stop babbling before I kill you with it, as I tend to do to people, lol.
I hope this helps! If you have more questions, don't hesitate to ask. I answer everything I can, and I'm always willing to try harder!
-Siren =)
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