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ok well i think i may like this girl or at least i find myself flirting with her alot, maybe it's just my nature?? i have no idea, but me and my gf broke up and im not sure if im just flirting with this girl because i like her or if im just trying to get over my gf. and the problem is i don't wanna like her because one of my good friends likes her too, and i would really feel bad if i did that. plus summer is coming up so i dont kno if i'll c her ne more. so can you please help me
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What's a better way to answer a question than with a question itself? When you were going out, did you find yourself trying to hide feelings for this girl because you were taken? Be honest. If you did, then you know the answer to that question- you really do like her. If not, then you might still like her, but you might just be on the rebound, so here are some questions to ask yourself: What exactly do you like about this girl? (If this is hard to answer, you're probably on the rebound.) Does your ex ever come to mind when you are flirting with this girl? (If no, then you probably like her.) Do you flirt with other girls too, but maybe not as much? (If yes, most likely rebound.) Does your good friend flirt with her around you? (If yes, then you might not even like the girl, but it's instinct to want something you know you shouldn't/can't have.) Do you plan to see her over the summer or think you will? If no, then no need to worry because she will be out of your mind and you can focus on other people. If yes, then try to avoid it, or bring other friends along to distract you. If you really do think you like her after all these questions, and you can't stop thinking about her after a while, and she might like you back, then talk to your good friend about it. Hope I helped!
~Meags
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