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He's gone!!!
Hi Karen!
Hope you're well! Well , last night was Will's leaving party. So, I got a tan and bought a new top adn went to the bar with my flatmate and another friend. He was there and we said hi and then went to go and sit down. We went to the club about 45 minutes later. During the night I saw him a bit but we were with diferent groups of friends so didn't talk until I decided to go to the bar.I went to buy a few shots and decided to get him one. I took it over to him and he said he couldn't drink it cos he was so drunk and his friends kept on buying them for him too. I said he had to drink it so he did but then he just walked off. No thank you or anything. I went back to the bar with two friends and was talking to this other guy. My friend said he couldn't stop staring at me. But whenever I looked at him he looked away. This is so confusing Karen!
Later on we were all on the dance floor and he was there - we danced together for a bit and then I walked off because I needed to put my bag down. When I got back he had gone. My friend said that if a guy tries to kiss you and you turn him down he won't try again as he's got too much male pride to do....
I went to Magic Roll and my friend came up to me and said I owed himone. He told Will that I fancied him and that he should come and see me in Magic Roll which he did. BUT. He said to my friend that he liked me and I was a great girl but he didn't want to hurt me because he was leaving. WHAT??!!! So after trying to kiss me, sending all those texts, the body language and the free texts he goes and says this? Why! Is it because he was really drunk? Is it because he liked me and didn't want to do anything because he might start to get feelings? Did he think that I wanted more than just a kiss? I walked out and said goodbye to him. He asked me if I was going back to his flat with all of his friends and I said no. Why say that after telling my friend he didn't want anything to happen? He then asked if I was going out the following night (tonight) and I said I wasn't sure but told him to text me. How confusing. What is going on Karen? One minute he is being really forward, staring at me etc and the next throwing it all back in my face! Why! Because he was soo drunk or because he doesn't actually fancy me even though there have been so many hints that he does over the last few weeks? Sorry it's a bit garbled. thanks Karen
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Why do guys have to be so freakin' complicated? I think you should call him as soon as you get this. Tell him time is running out and you want to know what the heck he's thinking. Men are weird. I get this from my husband all the time. You think they are thinking one thing when it is something else entirely. They don't seem to pick up on hints very easily either.
What your friend said is true. Most guys are like that. Your mission Daisy should you decide to pursue it is...I think you need to tell him that you are now free to be kissed and would like at least one before he goes. See if that gets him talking! It could very well be that he thinks you would turn him down again. I mean think about it, we would feel that way right? I'd maybe tell him...hard as it will be for you to do. He will be leaving soon so embarrassment be damned!
It could also be true that he's afraid of a long distance relationship. I think you might tell him about having an uncle you could visit and see him after he goes home. That could make a big difference.
I think you need to peel him away from his friends for a moment and talk to him BEFORE he gets to drunk. See what you can get out of him.
Before he leaves if things are okay between you, make sure he has your number and all that.
Talk to him over the phone if it's easier or text him. Really let him know what you are thinking. Let him know you have a means of seeing him after he goes home. Let him know a kiss wouldn't be turned down. Tell him you think you could be interested...then you meet him tonight.
I think you guys are sending each other mixed signals right now. The only way to get past it is going to be saying something to him about your true feelings. And finding out what his are.
It will be hard but I know you can do it. Toss back a little drink and call him right now. Let me know what happens. *fingers crossed * Good luck! :)
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